Yangyang has had a bad habit of sleeping with his hands over his private parts since he was two years old. Parents who are busy running around every day do not notice this behavior of their children. Yangyang went to kindergarten at the age of three, the beds in the garden are connected, the quilt is relatively thick in winter, and Yangyang sleeps in his private parts without being found by anyone.
When summer came, the thick quilt was replaced with a towel quilt, "Yangyang, the way you sleep is so strange." The clinical companion said to Yangyang after getting up for a nap. Yang Yang unconsciously blushed, "where strange, you do not care." Three-or four-year-olds can already communicate in simple words, and they are already "embarrassed".
The words in the same bed gave Yangyang a reminder that he would wait for his companions to fall asleep before taking a nap in the future. But the smart guy doesn't know that the teacher has begun to pay attention to his behavior.
Finally, one day, when his mother took Yangyang home, he began to "interrogate" him.
"Baby, why do you always cover the place where you pee when you sleep?" The sudden questioning overwhelmed the child and said, "Wow." Yangyang began to cry. The mother seems to know that she is too strict. What can a three-or four-year-old child know? Quickly coax the child, and then calm down and communicate with each other.
It turned out that Yangyang felt very comfortable covering his private parts when sleeping
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The editor revealed the secret:
Yangyang mother is not alone in her confusion. It is believed that 99% of the parents in China have doubts about the behavior of their children covering their private parts. First of all, I would like to make it clear that this sad situation of parents is caused by the lack of formal sex education.
During the child's sexual bud, it is easy to touch the private parts to get pleasure.
2Mel 5-year-old children are in the sexual bud stage, during this period, the child's attention begins to shift, by stroking the penis and clitoris to gain physical pleasure and satisfaction, this feeling of pleasure comes from the stimulation of the sexual organs. But this kind of early childhood masturbation and adult masturbation are two different concepts and completely different in nature. This behavior of children has neither the sexual consciousness of adults nor the desire for sexual intercourse, nor the sexual physiological reactions such as ejaculation of adults. In the minds of children, this is just a sexual game.
However
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Is there any other reason for children to touch their reproductive organs?
Curiosity about the body: children are in a stage of extreme curiosity and knowledge during this period, so it is natural for children to have a liking for their reproductive organs, and they do not have the adult view of this behavior. so people should not treat their children with their own hearts.
Lack of family care: some children, due to various reasons, lack the care of their parents at this stage, they will give themselves emotional comfort by touching their genitals and eliminate tension and uneasiness. On the other hand, some parents are relatively indifferent to their children and do not want to play with their children. when children cannot find ways to play and toys that they are interested in
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The sexual stimulation of the environment: after the child defecates and defecates, wiping his ass with toilet paper will make the child feel a kind of stimulation to the sexual organs, produce itching and other feelings, and deepen the child's interest in the reproductive organs, while some adult scenes in the movies and TV dramas also give the child a certain hint, and when the child happens to see other children playing with their genitals, it stimulates the child's curiosity about this organ. Causing children to play with their genitals.
Local pathological changes of genitals: because unclean life causes pathological changes of children's reproductive organs, resulting in itching of reproductive organs, it is also a reason for children to caress their genitals.
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