For those who are familiar with the "correct concept"
butt , it is not difficult to find that the words that are most often mentioned in sex education are AIDS, venereal diseases, care, abortion, tragedy and so on. Media reports will also stir up the elements such as the loss of virginity of college students, small hotels, porn, and the flow of people. The sexual topic of minors and even adult college students has become synonymous with depravity and retrogression. In people's minds, such elements have been magnified again and again. It is constantly used by guardians to warn future generations.
Sex education is not just a physical health course.
Sex education only focuses on the ethics of chastity
ed vacuum pump , which is divorced from reality and becomes preaching.
In 2008, the premarital virginity class entered the campus of Chinese universities, which caused widespread controversy. In 2010, the book "No regrets in this Life" with keeping chastity as the core was written into the textbook and was adopted locally in Yunnan. And these so-called chastity sermons are only repetitive and terrifying arguments, avoiding the physical and psychological pleasures of sex. It is worth noting that most chastity words only require women and do not restrict men, which in fact is still a modern copy of "hymen worship" and "women should keep their virginity for men".
In ancient times, it was easy to maintain premarital chastity, because at that time people usually married at the age of 14 or 15, but now many people do not marry until they are in their 20s or even 30s. The postponement of marriage age makes it difficult to maintain premarital chastity. Premarital sex has become a trend. In the United States, a study commissioned by Congress also shows that American students who have participated in special "chastity classes" do not show more abstinence in terms of sexual behavior and attitudes than those who do not participate in relevant education programs.
Sex education is regarded as a physiological and health course, which is mostly abandoned in practice.
At the physiological level
my old ass , most domestic schools only regard sex education as a chapter of other courses (such as physiology, mental health of college students, etc.), the content is fragmented and incomplete. For most areas, the physiology and health course in senior high school is only to complete the curriculum task of 0.5 class hours per week stipulated in the whole-day Primary and Junior Middle School Curriculum Plan. Many schools put them on the curriculum just to cope with the inspection by their superiors, which makes the official rate of opening classes inflated. In many schools, health education courses have long existed in name only, and the actual opening rate is very low. As for those schools that barely complete the physiology and health course, they only follow the script to publicize the content.
There is a lack of executable teaching materials and a wide range of contact channels for minors.
Heilongjiang Province only began to train senior high school teachers about adolescent education since 2002, and compiled the first high school stage education textbook "sexual Health Education for Senior High School students". It was only two years later that it entered the classroom and became the first set of regular textbooks. It was only in September 2004 that the Beijing area launched its first "sexual health orientation" covering topics such as sex, pregnancy and sexual morality. It was not until September 2004 that a series of sex education textbooks covering the entire adolescence from the higher grades of primary school, junior high school to senior high school were published in Nanning. Embarrassingly, after the launch of the first textbook in Heilongjiang, it was once controversial because of the "strong reaction" from teachers and parents.
The more imprisoned you are, the easier you are to be challenged. Under the hindrance of normal access to information, boys and girls under the surge of hormones get fragments of information about sex through books, newspapers, film and television works, and the Internet. From videotapes that sprang up in the early 1990s, to smuggled books and periodicals that have been circulated countless times, and even pirated CDs smelling of fish and looming under the early electronic market showcases, including Aoi sola, who was very popular in the Internet era-"without Japanese AV, China's sex education is completely blank" has become the best interpretation for young activists to get "sex" information.
Sex education is not just a physical health course.
Sex-related incidents of minors ferment on the Internet, and adults often blame "foreign culture"
There is no comprehensive and scientific understanding of sex, lack of judgment on sexual morality and ethics, and the media cater to the interest of netizens, all kinds of "doors" appear in the public view more and more. In fact, minors have been involved in sexual problems for a long time. It was noted in the Juvenile Crime report published in the 1980s that in 1986, compared with 1982, the proportion of underage sexual "crimes" in the total "crimes" increased from 12% to more than 40%. In the mid-1990s, some scholars conducted investigations and studies on sexually disciplined children in juvie. In the Internet era, with the Internet hype, all kinds of events ferment frequently on the Internet, which has aroused widespread public concern.
When many adults lamented that the post-80s and 90s were "getting more and more out of line", they almost unanimously believed that it was "the impact of foreign culture that dazzled middle school students, and the wind of 'sexual openness,' sexual freedom, 'and' sexual liberation'in foreign countries. so that they don't know what to do." However, parents and teachers often ignore the lack of sex education and the lack of graded film and television works. "pornographic website", "foreign culture" and "western open mind" have become the common words for adult society to wash away its own responsibility.
The nature of sex is due to the animal nature of human beings. The natural truth and desire to destroy people that have been formed in our long-standing education model are faintly seen today. Budding youth does not need to be hidden, excited hormones should also be reasonably released, and the sexual enlightenment of the whole nation cannot be solved only by a few more Aoi sola.
What are the misunderstandings of adolescent sex education?
Myth 1: school education is enough
An authoritative figure of the World Health Organization once said: when he talked to some college students in Beijing, he found that many people were still ignorant about sex. According to Durex's 2004 Global situation report, the average age at which Chinese teenagers received sex education for the first time was 13.7, ranking seventh from the bottom of the 41 countries surveyed.
Myth 2: adolescent sex education is for contraception.
Adolescent sex education for adolescents should not be limited to avoiding premarital sex, but should be extended to the prevention of AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. In China, there are more and more cases of HIV infection, mainly due to the failure of adolescent sex education. In some countries where sex education is well carried out, the phenomenon is significantly reduced.
Myth 3: the earlier the adolescent sex education
chastity cage , the more dangerous the child is.
Many parents are afraid to talk to their children because they are worried that their children will have sex. Ms. Shiritaria, representative of the United Nations population Fund's representative office in China, said: "it is not that teenagers will not have sex if they do not talk about sex. The actual situation in China and many countries is that the number of unmarried pregnant girls is increasing, not because they know too much about sex, but too little. "
Therefore, parents and schools should avoid the misunderstanding of adolescent sex education and treat the problem of adolescent sex education correctly. Only when the adolescent sex education of the child is done well, is actually a kind of correct guidance to the child's behavior.
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