The boy who is about to go to high school dare not take the initiative to say hello to the guests and speak shyly. This worried some parents, in order to restore their children to the nature of boys, they specially went to the tutoring center and asked for "Sunshine Boys" to play with them. A few days ago, the reporter learned from some tutoring centers that since the summer, some parents have asked tutors for nothing else, but to correct their children's gender awareness.
Relevant experts say that there is a lot of concern for girls' education in society, but no attention has been paid to boys' character education.
I'm still not a boy at the age of 15.
Cui Cheng, 15, has always been a good boy. He is on a stress-free holiday after taking the middle school entrance exam this year, but his father has assigned him a new task-spending one morning with his tutor every morning, studying and chatting. Mr. Cui told the reporter that the child is so old and still speaks coyly, just like a girl, he used to ask for a female tutor, but this time I found him a boy and had to take him back to his boyish appearance.
Mr. Cui said that he has been very busy at work. From childhood to childhood, his wife takes care of his son, and his wife likes girls. Sometimes he dresses Xiao Cui Cheng like a girl, but his son becomes more and more quiet and timid when he grows up. A while ago, when he taught his son how to bike, his son was scared to cry. He realized that the problem was a little serious.
"in the past, girls' tutoring was more popular, but there are a lot of boys these days. Some of them really don't require boys to be patient. The key is to be lively and have a boy's character." Experts say that parents who are looking for tutors recently actually tend to spend the summer vacation with their children, and male tutors mainly play with boys.
Worried about the shortage of men in the future
"Boys are too much of a problem, which should attract the attention of society." Experts say she has been paying attention to this problem for a long time, and she has repeatedly encountered it during consultation among residents. Now many of the "2030" unemployed young people in the streets are boys, some have no sense of responsibility, some are afraid of setbacks
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"Boys are becoming less and less like men, and they can't be compared with girls in many ways." Experts say that this year, 10 students from Jianjiang Middle School were admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, all of them were girls, and five probationary party members were all girls. This must not be normal.
The expert said she had a daughter, so she joked with the boy's parents in several lectures: "you must hurry up and cultivate your son so that our daughter can't find a man in the future."
It is generally reflected that girls are generally better than boys in schools, most of the class cadres are girls, and there is indeed a certain proportion of "sissy" young boys. Nowadays, many families are only children, and only-child boys are generally more spoiled, especially for their sons, even though they are in junior high school. Boys of the same age are generally not as sensible as girls.
The late maturity of boys is manifested in marriage, that is, they lack a sense of responsibility and do not have a sense of overall interests. According to an incomplete survey, 40% of divorces under the age of 35 are wives who think their husbands are "unmanly".
The education of boys should be advanced.
"it is the current negative environment that teaches boys not to be like boys." Experts say that since kindergarten, boys have mostly come into contact with female teachers, and examination-oriented education advocates careful and repeated training, including in film and television entertainment, boys are girls with long hair, and the whole society advocates feminine beauty.
Only-child families are most likely to corrupt a boy's morale. These boys not only tend to lack a sense of responsibility and tolerance, but also tend to be selfish and cynical. Boys in only-child families are generally spoiled by their mothers and are most likely to be gay and sissy, according to a new study.
Nowadays, boys have few outdoor sports, and most boys like to watch TV, play computers and watch cartoons, which lead to over-development of the right brain and are accustomed to jumping and montage-style illogical ways of thinking. like playing virtual but do not know how to feel others and the things around them, it is easy to become selfish and indifferent.
Experiments have also proved that girls before marriage like negative boys and women like sunny men after marriage, which is related to hormone secretion. But as a matter of fact, some boys are still like sub-children when they reach the age of marriage, and some still go out to Internet cafes all night after marriage, simply do not know how to be husbands, how to care for their wives, and do not have a sense of "shoulder", so they cannot bear the burden.
"Boys' gender awareness should be cultivated as soon as possible, and preschool classes are the most suitable, so there should be more male teachers here." Experts say fathers have a very important role model for their sons, so fathers should spend more time with their sons.
Eight key words in the private parts of young boys
When youth begins to grow, boys' attention to themselves also begins to grow, especially to their reproductive organs, reaching an unprecedented level. If you pay more attention to your "baby", you will be happy, but if you lack the necessary physiological knowledge, it will only add a lot of inexplicable troubles. Today, let's click on some of the secrets of our "baby". After understanding, the troubles will naturally "slip away".
[length & thickness]
After puberty, a major change in our physiology is that our "baby" begins to grow and get thicker. This shows that we are already moving towards adulthood.
But many young friends find that their penises are not as long or thick as others', so they worry blindly: is their own abnormal? Will it have an impact on the future? In fact, such worries are purely superfluous.
First of all, we must understand that the bigger the penis, the better, as long as it can meet the sexual requirements, it is normal. Moreover, there are great differences between us. In China, the average length of the penis of normal adult men during erection is about 13cm, but it is normal between 8cm-16cm; when it is weak, the average length is about 6cm, and the length between 4cm-11cm is normal. As long as your penis size is within the normal range, it will be OK.
And because of obesity, part of the penis of many people is buried under fat, not really that short. It is rare to have a born penis.
[erection- hardness]
Boys' babies get an erection when they see, read or think about sex-related things, which is a reactive erection. If you constantly stimulate local organs, you can also make the penis erect, which is a reflex erection. The third kind of erection is a nocturnal erection. Young people have five or six natural erections in their sleep overnight. The above three ways of erection are normal physiological responses. There is no need to be shy, let alone any burden.
If a normal erection does not continue to stimulate, it will naturally fade. After ejaculation, the penis generally weakens gradually and enters the refractory period, which is also a natural protection to prevent the penis from being congested all the time. However, if the penis continues to erect for more than 6 hours without sexual desire, it is an abnormal erection and needs to see a doctor.
For us young people, it is generally not possible to get an erection, and there is no need to worry about the hardness of our erections.
Generally speaking, hardness varies with age, and about 20 years old is the hardest time for our baby. Had it not been for illness and other reasons, our baby would not have bowed his head easily. Even if it is no longer so hard once in a while, don't worry, maybe your baby is tired and resting!
[prepuce & phimosis]
Foreskin is the layer of skin that wraps our glans, just like a piece of clothing worn by our baby. After puberty, because of hormones, our penis begins to grow, and the prepuce shrinks back, slowly becoming normal. But this "dress" is not the longer the better. Foreskin is too long, the first point is that our glans are wrapped for a long time, it is easy to produce foreskin dirt, if not often cleaned, it is easy to cause balanitis. If our prepuce is like a small piece of clothing, when we have an erection, our glans are stuck so as not to reveal it, or even if it can be turned up, it is too stuck to prevent the blood flow of our penile veins from flowing back, then it is phimosis. Too long prepuce is not a big problem, but phimosis needs to be circumcised.
Too long prepuce will make our long-term wrapped glans very sensitive
adult toys , easy to cause premature ejaculation during sex, but the prepuce is too long and does not necessarily need surgery, because the prepuce is not useless.
[erection Angle & erection Direction]
Have you ever cared about the angle between your penis and your body when you have an erection? This angle is called erectile angle. The size of the erection angle is related to the pressure in the penile sponge. Generally speaking, the erection angle is the largest when a man is about 20 years old.
There are differences in the erection angle between individual men, but most men's penile erection angle is greater than 90 degrees (horizontal line up). Mostly between 120 and 130 degrees. About 10% of men are close to their belly when they have an erection, and another 5% have an erection angle of less than 90 degrees (downward). Generally speaking, it is normal to be able to complete sexual intercourse and get sexual satisfaction.
Most people's penis erection direction is vertical forward
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[color]
The color of our "baby" also changes with our development. Generally speaking, our penis is gradually blackening.
The blackening of the penis is mainly caused by the precipitation of melanin. Sexual organs and other parts of the high concentration of sex hormones, long-term sexual stimulation results in a large number of melanin precipitation and darker skin color, so the penis becomes "black" is normal, do not worry.
[testis]
In the big bag under our "baby" lives a pair of "twin brothers", that is, testicles. It is a factory and warehouse that produces sperm, and it is very fragile, so we must take good care of them and not let them get hurt.
Testicles are afraid of heat. Its temperature is usually two or three degrees lower than the average body temperature. Because the hot environment is not conducive to sperm production. Therefore, young people are advised not to often wear tight jeans, but to often let their "balls" come out to get some air and cool off for a while. Sauna will kill our sperm, but it will have a great impact on future fertility.
In addition, the size of the testicles and the size of the testicles on both sides generally do not affect fertility. But if there is testicular atrophy or congenital no testicles, testicles do not fall and other phenomena, it is necessary to see a doctor in time.
[semen]
Have you all had the experience of spermatorrhea? The sticky stuff on our underwear that embarrasses us is semen. Semen is composed of sperm and prostatic fluid, completely liquefied semen, usually milky white, if there is no ejaculation for a long time, there may be yellowish Yee sugar-like colloid crystals. This is caused by incomplete liquefaction, not a disease. Under normal circumstances, the semen volume of adults is between 2ml-3ml each time. If it is less than 1ml, it is called too little semen. At this time, it can make the sperm lose its motility and lose its fertility, which needs attention.
In addition, in the early stage of penile erection, there will be a small amount of sticky and greasy fluid near the urethral orifice, which is the paraurethral glandular fluid secreted during sexual excitement, which plays a lubricating role, not semen.
[pubic hair]
When the beard is covered with lips, the pubic hair below also breaks the dirt around our "baby".
Pubic hair, like hair on other parts of the body, has the effect of reducing friction and maintaining ventilation.
The thinness of pubic hair has nothing to do with sexual ability, so it is not worth inferiority or showing off. However, pubic hair is in a secret place, and if we ignore its hygiene and health care, we will grow pubic lice. Pubic lice is a kind of lice that grows at the root of pubic hair and can make you itch hard. Having sex, sharing underwear or sharing bedding can all spread pubic lice. Therefore, in order to avoid the infection of pubic lice, more attention must be paid to personal basic hygiene. If it is unfortunately infected, the pubic hair should be shaved off to cut off the space for pubic lice to grow.
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