No one is a master of sex for the first time, so it is difficult to ensure the quality of the first sex, especially for girls, if they do not master and understand certain sexual skills in advance, the first sex will probably become a painful memory. So, be sure to learn this before you have sex for the first time.
When is the best time to have sex for the first time?
A survey published in the American journal Health shows that having sex for the first time too early or too late may affect future marriages. The study tracked the romantic experiences and future marriages of 1500 American teenagers from the age of 15 to 30. It was found that those who had sex before the age of 18 and those who experienced "the first time" after the age of 30 were likely to have more marital problems in the future, such as being prone to cheating and not being able to deal with relationships. Those who had a "first time" around the age of 23 were better able to deal with marital problems and communicate more smoothly with their partners.
Researchers believe that having sex too early and immature both physically and mentally may lead to misconceptions of feelings, which in turn affect marriage. Having sex too late means less contact with the opposite sex
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What are the precautions for the first sex?
1. The right state of mind
Because the young girl has no or little sexual experience, you should take the initiative to help her and enlighten her so that the two can better cross Wushan together. Young girls may be nervous when they start having sex because of shyness or inexperience.
At this time, you should not be in such a hurry, but take your time and gently undress her to relieve her tension. It is also because of shyness that young girls are not as open as mature young women and can quickly enter the state.
Therefore, you should do foreplay and do more to fiddle with sensitive parts, so that girls can better get into a state of intoxication and be good for sex.
2. pay attention to the hygiene of external genitals
On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash the vulva with lukewarm water and neutral soap. As a result of marriage purchases and entertaining relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired, men's foreskin and women's vaginal secretions increase, if not cleaned, very unhygienic, will affect the libido and health of both men and women.
3. Prevent inflammation of the damaged hymen.
After the rupture of the hymen, some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding should be wiped with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have sexual intercourse every 3 days to prevent the wound from inflaming. If the hymen ruptures and bleeds a lot and the pain is unbearable, you should see a doctor.
Remind: sometimes because the female hymen is thick or the hymen hole is too small, or the male sexual intercourse action is rough, there may be more bleeding after hymen tearing. The most serious cases not only cause a large crack in the hymen, but also lacerate the labial wall of the lesser vulva, resulting in massive bleeding.
4. Do a good job of contraception
If both men and women do not want to have children immediately and do not eat contraceptive, both husband and wife have concerns, and the woman is more afraid of pregnancy
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5. Cooperate closely and be considerate to each other
In the beginning of sexual life, both sides will be harmful sense of shame, especially the woman is more obvious, the psychological state is more complex, a little nervous. If you want your husband to move gently, you can't try it more than once. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate to overcome tension and fear, relax actively, arouse sexual excitement quickly
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