Adolescence is different from childhood and adulthood, the biggest feature of this period is the development and maturity of sexual organs, the whole body and mind changes rapidly. Zhang Shengyuan, a famous adolescent psychological counseling expert in China
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What are the benefits of adolescent sex education?
For children who have just entered puberty, the most important psychological feature of this period is the awakening of "self-consciousness" and "sexual consciousness". Children entering this period will have some problems in "sex" more or less, therefore, this period is also the period in which sex education is most needed in one's life.
Sex education is not only knowledge education, but also personality education. the ultimate goal of sex education is not to impart a lot of sexual knowledge to children, but to ask children to learn correct sexual attitude and correct sexual behavior.
Sex is an important part of personality. Only when a teenager solves sexual problems well can he or she acquire a good personality.
With regard to the ways of sex education
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For young people, nothing is more harmful than stolen knowledge. When nature itself begins to awaken teenagers' interest in sex, a reasonable and pure understanding of the secrets of nature is the only way to save them from harmful pornography.
Therefore, sex education is not negative preventive education, but positive and open education. we should carry out sexual physiological education before children's physical development, and sexual psychological education before children's sexual consciousness germinates. before the development of children's sexual behavior, we should carry out sexual ethics education.
Sex education needs sexual psychological counseling
For boys and girls, the focus of sex education is limited to sexual safety education, only talking about contraception is not enough, but also to understand their sexual psychology. If you don't understand their sexual psychology, sex education is nothing.
There is a dialogue between mother and daughter, which to a certain extent reflects the sexual psychology of post-90s teenagers.
The mother asked her daughter, who was in the third year of junior high school
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The daughter said: "there are several, but these students have their own 'reasons' for pregnancy."
The daughter explained to her mother that the first type of pregnant girls want to use pregnancy to hold their favorite boys in their hands and want to have sex to consolidate their relationship; the second category is that they can't help but fall in love and can't extricate themselves from falling in love. I was scared after I got pregnant. The idea of the third category of girls is quite practical, and the purpose is to enjoy the present moment and be willing to take responsibility for "pregnancy". It is a typical new school style of "living in the present".
Hearing this, the mother was surprised and asked, "aren't these children afraid of getting pregnant and having an abortion?"
The daughter smiled and replied, "Mom, your stuff doesn't work for us anymore. do you know that we are disgusted with intimidating and threatening sex education?"
In the survey of psychological state and family environment of unmarried pregnant girls, it was found that among 100 unmarried pregnant girls between the ages of 10 and 19, the average age of pregnancy was 17.2 years old, of which 65% were puppy love, 18 cases were on impulse, 16 cases were curious about sex, and 1 case was caused by rape.
Among this group of pregnant girls, 68% believe that their pregnancy is related to family factors. Guo Li said that this group of children generally reflect the alienation of intimacy among their family members, poor expression of affection, and prominent family conflicts. And these children's communication skills in the family are also poor, unable to solve the conflicts between family members.
It is precisely because of these family problems that many boys and girls' ability to control sexual behavior is weakened, sex occurs early and unmarried pregnancy is more common.
Under such circumstances, if we do not talk about sexual psychology to middle school students, sex education is equivalent to talking for nothing. Guo Li said that there are many negative emotions in adolescence, especially the confrontation and rejection of parents during the rebellious period, eager to build their own self-confidence, want to mature, resist regulation
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